
Fromm's first great book asks a hard question: why do people, once they win their freedom, so often hurry to give it away? Looking at the modern person cut loose from old bonds, he traces the loneliness and fear that can push whole societies toward strong leaders and easy answers.

Fromm argues that love is not a lucky feeling that happens to us but a skill we learn, like music or medicine. He looks at love of a partner, a child, a stranger and oneself, and at why a culture built on buying and selling finds it so hard.

A late, clear-eyed book that sets two ways of living side by side: having, where we measure ourselves by what we own, and being, where we live by what we are and do. Fromm asks which one a society of endless consumption is quietly teaching us to choose.